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The BIG 3 Journal Prompts 

CONNECT, heart to heart with your husband again.

Bring back the spark of ALIVENESS and JOY in your marriage.

The BIG 3:
Journal Prompts that will make you a better communicator

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How your husband responds to you is a direct function of how you RELATE to him.

RELATING to him as obstacle, makes you a threat.

RELATING to him as someone you love and respect, makes you a partner.

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Easily communicate RESPECTFULLY and receive a better response from your husband.

I have been able to take back my power, and give my husband his power back as well.

Working with Julie has been unique in the right kind of way. Her approach is very woman centered, empowerment focused and guides the woman to be in the driver’s seat of her life, first, and to empower and create safe space for the partner second. I resisted this approach at first. What I learned is that my husband was there all along. This is about seeing things differently and it works. Julie is genius, courageous and committed to beautiful, supportive, loving relations where everyone wins. 

PAM B.

I was a burnt-out, high-achieving professional and felt like I was failing my family. Since then, our relationship has become more loving and compassionate. We've been able to be more open and express our deep feelings in the moment, rather than waiting months after something happened. I'm now able to enjoy everyday life with my family and recognize the beautiful moments we have together. Additionally, I can clearly see the positive changes in my children, which is a reflection of the changes in me.

I thought I was coming to Julie for communication, but I got a lot more.

ANNA TAN

Before working with Julie, I didn't know what it meant to be in a partnership. I didn't realize it at the time, but I wasn't a safe space for him. He was walking on eggshells around me. Now he feels seen, open, and excited to be with me. I feel honored to be that safe space for him, someone I love so much. To be able to show up like that is a gift  I feel so proud of myself. We are more open, have more fun, and have more date nights. I feel confident and grounded in the beautiful life we are building together!

Nothing I said fazed her. She knew how to cut right to the heart of the matter and empowered me over and over.

LN

Julie's guidance gave me and my husband the deeper connection we were seeking. She helped me step into my role as a leader in our marriage, where I can support my husband in leading our family.

I'm super thankful to Julie for her help! If you're on the fence about joining her program, I highly recommend it. Her guidance can help take your relationship to the next level!


Believe me when I say you don't need your husband to join a program!

MICHELLE LACH

I'm Julie.
Your expert in women-centered marriage coaching.

I'm a compassionate communication marriage coach for modern women. I bring a unique blend of personal experiences as an executive in corporate turned marriage coach, wife, and former foster mom, along with overcoming my struggles with burnout, mental health, and infertility.

Years ago, while climbing the corporate ladder, I had success on paper and a "boojie" life style, but in my personal life my marriage felt hard. Like contemplating divorce hard. My husband was not interested in going to couples therapy. I felt totally stuck.

After hitting my breaking point, I realized that I need to stop trying to change my husband and instead, work on me.

Today, after 16 years together, we are MADLY in love with each other. Every day truly gets better and better.

That's because I discovered what every ambitious woman has been missing - the art and skill of being able to communicate with compassion.

My mission is to empower courageous women like you to lead your marriage to peace and paradise. You don't need couples therapy to have the marriage you always hoped for. Let's embark on this transformative journey together.